Get a life!!

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Get A Life !!!!
It was a very long conversation ,then she said something that actually made me break that 30mins rule .She said, I can’t do anything specific in life now until I get married .yea, that shocked you too? that was the look I had on my face when I heard that. She said Jemima, you know its when you get married you can have a purpose ,well I don’t blame her o its because she doesn’t know the truth yet .

You see, my pastor said to me “blindness is not only when your eyes can’t see, blindness is also not realizing that as far as you can see,God has taken a place for you there ”

This write up is for every youth,single ,double who always thinks they don’t have a purpose until they have a Family . Being single is not being limited …at the time when you are single its a good time for you to maximize your potential.that is the time you have to discover your self,your gifts,your talents,your dreams, to develop your character, so when the right person comes ,then it becomes so easy to become one. No matter how deep that love is ,No love is too deep to take in liability.

Mckinney hammond said and I coat “that those who wait for others to entertain them ,only seem boring for those who have the ability to entertain “…

let us all wake up ,become creative ,have a teachable spirit that is always open to learn new things. when we do this, life becomes easy to live .don’t say “until I am married” because marriage comes with a lot more responsibility than we all think.
You see if an idle mind is the devils workshop then, an empty life would actually be the best place for devil to sleep and wake. You been single doesn’t put a stop to your purpose .
The best way to get a life is to discover our purpose and run with it !!! Stand up people! Don’t let the words you hear or what you see limit your potential,don’t let the hurt you’ve felt take that life from you ,Go get your Life,We can DO IT!!.
So help us God!!!!

My loud thought
Oluwatobiloba

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Just a thought to take you through the day
“You can’t be a FATHER until you are ready and willing to go FARTHER ”
We should all be ready and willing to take responsibilities.

Today on “My loud thought”; your Advice, comments, and anything you would love me to talk about are welcome.

Do have a nice weekend.
Thank you.

A cry for Help!!

A CRY FOR HELP!!!
Hmmmm! When I got this email, I couldn’t help but get emotional! This is a story of a young girl, telling me to please tell this story to the world, we should please advice her on what to do with her life. My people this is a cry for help; she needs US!

The story goes this:
“Jemima, this is a story I would like you to share with everyone. It’s the story of my life. I won’t mention my name because this is something that brings shame to me.

“I was from a rich family until my father died few years ago. I am the only child of my parent, I’m in my early twenties. My father died when I was 15years old. While my father was still alive, he was my best friend and I never had to ask for anything twice. Just one day he complained of headache and died, I don’t know what people think killed him but I know one thing for sure that my mum is the cause. Yes I know, people would think I’m wicked but my mum happens to be the devil.

“My mother is a very materialistic woman; all her life is about gold and clothes. Even when my father was alive she would prefer to use everything he had for Gold, that is how far she can go. When my father died she didn’t even act like she lost anyone, all she kept saying was life continues. Some years after my father died, she started spending everything he left behind, using it for parties, even parties she knew nothing about.

“Then the whole money finished, at least that was what she told me because I was in a boarding school. The only time I had to see all she was doing was whenever I came home for holidays, but after I finished my secondary school I got admission into a private university from where I dropped out because of money. I have been rolling in shame and reproach since then. I tried to get a small paid-job but my mum told me not to search anywhere for job that I was beautiful enough to get all I wanted.
Then one night she took me to her friend’s hotel and told me that’s where I would work as from that day. That night,she tied a bead around my waist, and I’m not sure maybe she used something on me but all I can remember was I agreed to all she said.

“That was the beginning of my ill fated journey. I was given some clothes that night and was told to wear it. I was introduced to some girls who started taking me out. That night I slept with 3 men and I lost my virginity. The next day I went home and kept crying telling her I can’t do this, what if I get pregnant? Then she smiled and said; “my daughter you can’t get pregnant, the bead I gave you will prevent pregnancy all I just need from you is bring money home so I can get gold and maintain myself. I will give you your own percentage.”

“Yes I know you will say I was old enough to make decision but its wasn’t that easy. I think all this happened to me with the use of black magic, this continued for almost 3 years and whenever I go out and come back in the morning all she gives me out of the money I make is 2 -3 thousand naira. But sometimes last year, I followed my friend to church, and it was during one of the services that the pastor said someone was under a bondage and he needed to pray for the person.

“I can’t explain how? But I found myself in front and the pastor laid his hands on me the rest was history. After few months of encountering God I told my mum I wouldn’t do that job again, that I needed to move on with my life. She told me when its time to move on with my life she would tell me. I told her NO; the time is NOW and at that moment she told me if I decide to move on she won’t stop me but I can never have a child as a result of what she has done to me .

“Pls Jemima I need people’s advice. I don’t know what to do, I have met guys whom I like but the shame and reproach won’t allow me move closer to them. My mum keeps telling me I can never have a good life except I do what she wants. What should I do? This is beyond me; I have suffered long enough!!!”

Hmmmm, my people this is not a Nollywood story! This is a real life story; let’s pray for this lady. Advice her please; our opinions really matter!
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Get a life!!!!

Get A Life !!!!
It was a very long conversation ,then she said something that actually made me break that 30mins rule .She said, I can’t do anything specific in life now until I get married .yea, that shocked you too? that was the look I had on my face when I heard that. She said Jemima, you know its when you get married you can have a purpose ,well I don’t blame her o its because she doesn’t know the truth yet .
You see, my pastor said to me “blindness is not only when your eyes can’t see, blindness is also not realizing that as far as you can see,God has taken a place for you there ”

This write up is for every youth,single ,double who always thinks they don’t have a purpose until they have a Family . Being single is not been limited …at the time when you are single its a good time for you to maximize your potential ,that is the time you have to discover your self,your gifts,your talents,your dreams, to develop your character, so when the right person comes ,then it becomes so easy to become one No matter how deep that love is ,No love is too deep to take in liability

Mckinney hammond said and I quote “that those who wait for others to entertain them , only seem boring for those who have the ability to entertain “….let us all wake up ,become creative , have a teachable spirit that is always open to learn new things. when we do this, life becomes easy to live .don’t say “until I am married” because marriage comes with a lot more responsibility than we all think.

You see if an idle mind is the devils workshop then, an empty life would actually be the best place for devil to sleep and wake.
You been single doesn’t put a stop to your purpose .The best way to get a life is to discover our purpose and run with it !! Stand up people don’t let the word you hear and what you see limit you potential,don’t let the hurt you’ve felt take away your life .Get your life back ! .we can DO IT.
So help us God!!!!

My loud thought
Oluwatobiloba

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Tell the world!!!

TELL THE WORLD!!!
So many times, I ask myself. if people actually see this life we are living as a right or privilege ?some don’t even think God deserves a thank you, for all he has done for them. have you ever told the world ?.

How gracious God. Has been to you ?
How he saved you from that accident ?
How you survived that 9months pregnancy without needing to be admitted?
How he helped you get that contract you don’t deserve?
How he made the plans of the wicked known to you?
How you passed that exam without reading ?
How he gave you what to eat ,when you didn’t have a kobo with you?
How he loves you when nobody cares?
How he clothed you when all you had was rag ?
How he saved you after that abortion you promised him you won’t do again?
How he made people favor you when you didn’t measure up to the merit?
How he healed you when you thought that sickness was going to kill you?
How he remains faithful to you despite your unfaithfulness?
How he called you his daughter/son when your family disowned you?
How he promised to be with you all the days of your life?
How you did what no one has ever done in your family?
How his mercy kept you till this present moment?
How you’re able to breathe in and out without going to withdraw money to deposit in the hospital. For oxygen?

TELL THE WORLD how good he is to you ….don’t wait until time out …God deserves our ALL!!!!!

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Humility

HUMiLITY!!!!!

Hmmm ,Today is about Humility. Its been on my mind for too long now.
I just needed to write down this thought…..so onto the matter!!!!!
The dictionary defines humility has been respectful,modest.,lacking pretense , and not believing that you’re superior to others ,Humility in various interpretation is mostly seen has virtue in religion ..
I have actually met some very funny people who tell me they can’t help been proud its in the family ,some say well its not pride I have, its ego. sometimes people see humility has been stupid but seriously, let’s face it I was taught that the word “HUMILITY IS POSSESED BY ALL GREAT LEADERS .

The holy bible tells us that God opposes the proud and gives grace to the humble ,I can’t imagine God opposing someone. hehehe that’s not on point at all . You see, some people are in a very high position that they’ve actually started seeing people below them as nothing. Have you forgotten ,the same people that joined hands together to bring you up can also join hands together to bring you down, I am not saying we shouldn’t be confident in ourselves , but don’t misinterpret pride for confidence .so many relationships has been broken because someone was too proud to say sorry in it ,so many contracts have been lost because someone couldn’t say please ,so many people became so proud because of the help they rendered to people and in the process miss their blessings, so many people have remained helpless because they were too proud to let people help them , there’s no point in been proud if the result isn’t a good one . Please let’s practice humility in whatever aspect we have been proud. let’s carry with us the virtue of humility everywhere we go

I would love to stop *i wish I could keep writing tho* with this story .Someone once share this story of five people who went for interview in a particular company ,has they all sat down awaiting to be called upon ,A cleaner was sweeping a particular place then four of the applicants told the woman, was she too dump to know she shouldn’t sweep while they are seated , they passed insult on her and she said sorry ,then the fifth person stood up took the broom from her and told her she’s too old to sweep like that, it was time for the executive to finalize the interview ,the MD called the woman and asked her who do you think deserves the job .The woman didn’t think twice before mentioning the guy that helped her ……hmmm see, Humility pays there’s no body who remains humble and regrets it. Stay humble people, the fact that you’ve made it doesn’t mean the next person won’t !!!!
Be blessed !!!!!

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Mother!!!

Mother!!!!!

A mother, is she who can take the place of all others but whose place no one can take -Cardinal Mermillod ..
Sleeping through the night wasn’t possible at all …..don’t get me wrong. Technically I wasn’t thinking .okay yea(rolling eyes) I was thinking ….
I just couldn’t forget that labor room scene yea I know (its called adventure). That look on that woman’s face ,that pain in her eyes and that cry for help/ freedom ,because am sure she wanted nothing but to push that life out of her …but also I can’t forget that smile on that woman’s face when that baby came out. Believe me, its not a smile that can be exchanged for the best diamond in the world ,then the baby cried and I saw that natural love no one can ever give to you except. A mother !!!!!

Mothers are the best in the world, Apology to all the fathers, but seriously when you see a woman you should celebrate one ,think about the 9 months journey , think about the sleepness nights theyve had,think about the blame they’ve taken because of us ,think about the sacrifice some mothers have made to make their children the best in life .
Yes sometimes they can have different opinion from ours, somethings they can decide to train us in a way that we somethings think its wicked but all they wanted was to make us a better person (I rem this song *who sat and watched my infant head*)

For those mothers who died fighting there children’s battle may your souls rest in peace. And you will forever be loved ,and for some people who don’t have a good relationship with their mothers please go back to right the wrong ,it doesn’t matter who is at fault now ,some people wish they had that mother to quarrel with ,please swallow that pride and make things right and for to those who their great mother passed on ,well its not to late to right the wrong, you can be the best mother to your own children so they don’t regret not having a good relationship with you .
Let’s make our mothers happy ,let’s tell them we love them ,it doesn’t have to be mothers day before we show it ,A mothers heart yawns for their children’s love ,just like we yawn for their love when we were young ,show them what a great hero they are !!!!

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Have you Ever?

Have you ever?.
looking into empty space with like millions of questions in my head …..Yea I know , Seriously many times I wonder what really goes on in peoples head ,If we had the power to open up peoples mind we would be surprised. at the series of things that would be found in it …

Maybe am the only one thinking this or not but ….

Have you ever thought one thing we can do to change this world?
Have you ever thought of making an impact?
Have you ever had a wish that was never fulfilled ?
Have. you ever wished so much that something should be Yours?
Have you ever loved someone so much that they didn’t realize how much it hurts?
Have you ever wished you never had to say somethings you said?
Have you ever said sorry for the hurt and pain you caused some people?
Have you ever thought of a good reason why you are the living ?
Have you ever felt at a point in your life you wanted to give up but God helped you?
Have you ever said thank you to God for giving you the air that you breathe in?
Have you ever said to your self you are destined for greatness?

Take a sit and answer all this questions ,maybe there and then you will find answers to some things you’ve always wanted to know .

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Call a friend

Call a FRIEND!!!!

The dictionary defines a friend as someone who one knows ,likes and trust .Another definition of a friend is someone who gives assistant ,patron and support . Now I have a question for us ,do we or anyone we know fit very well into that definition of friend ? If yes well that’s good ,but if no I would like us to ask ourselves why?

It takes love,trust,patience,respect and great understanding to be a friend, if we or the people we call our friends don’t have all this then there’s need for a check. Many of us are so taken away by acquaintance,and we didn’t notice when the real friends walked out of our lives .

Yes , many of us has been betrayed by people who we call our friends, oh I have been there believe me, for some, they were able to forgive and forget and go back to rebuild that trust *thats not easy tho* but for some well ….they forgave but couldn’t continue with that friendship. I sincerely don’t blame anyone who did that ,some things are just best left the way they are!!

for those of us who have friends or are someone’s friend, let’s make the best we can make out of it .if you want to be a friend be a loyal one …..there’s this adage that says “20children cannot play for 20 years” that is very correct , The moment you have with each other, make it a memorable one ,don’t be a friend that people would never wish for .

Friendship goes a long way ,It can either make us or break us, for people that friendship as made continue to be the loyal You ….but for people who has been betrayed by friends .well don’t just give up on having another one . there are still some Friend in need. Friend indeed out there that needs you ,Go out there and meet people just make sure you follow your instinct this time around, don’t go into friendship blindly and for the wrong reason ….make friends who your goals are similar and who when either of you make progress they won’t become envious of you,make friend with people that can have your back anytime and won’t leave when the storm hits .

Shout out!!!! to all good friends out there ,who has been there one way or the other for their friends. Its good to mean a Friend WHEN WE CALL A FRIEND . Friends define WHO WE ARE

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