Valentine season! 🙂 Love is in the air. “Where will he take me to this time?” “What will he get me?” These are some of the questions ladies ponder. Well, not all ladies though; because some don’t.
Have you ever asked yourself while opening those cute gifts, if you’re just one of the numerous ladies on his list, or you’re his one and only?
…Ouch! some answers could hurt though.
Nevertheless ladies let’s get to the root!
He never misses to buy you chocolates and cookies every Feb 14th, for five years, while you gain an extra 10 pounds every Valentine’s day. But he hasn’t introduced you to any important person in his life. He hasn’t even brought up the “sub topics” under marriage.
When do you intend to stop playing anonymous? Are you Casper, the friendly ghost, who has a frightening effect on strangers, & never grows old? I bet you are NOT. You need to ask him what his plan for the future is for both of you – together. Ask him now before he turns you into a brownie!
You say “he is just a friend, besides, he has a girlfriend.” You are cool whenever he brings up his girl’s name into a discussion. You even help him decide what gifts to buy for her; that’s no problem for you at all. What bothers you is the way he frowns whenever a guy calls you. He gets sombre & sometimes, angry when you use other guys’ photos as your display picture. Which of you is being more silly?
Sister, you need him to re-define what his relationship with you is! ASAP!
Hi, I know you’re scared of being in a wrong relationship, so you avoid being in any relationship. You may have witnessed a man, probably your dad, mistreat a woman, or even you in some ways, and that has left a bad notion of men. Girl, you need to stop being bitter and come out of that shell! There are still many great gentlemen out there who know what it means to treat a woman right. You have to be ready to meet them. Pray to God to guide you to the right one. Remember this: no great man would pray to have a bitter woman. You can’t be bitter and be better at the same time.
Hey beautiful, you need to stop crying. I understand he broke your heart and it’s a painful feeling. But do you realize that while you wallow in your sorrow & regret, he moved on with his own life, probably living happy & loved? And while you vow not to love again, you give him triumph by making him be the only one who can make you happy.
Why let a broken heart lead to a broken life? You need to pick up the pieces and Move On: Laugh again, dance again, love again. Get rid of that very song that ties your heart to those memories. Make a joke about how he lost you, instead of crying over how you lost him. Evaluate why it didn’t work, improve on yourself. Smile for your coming prince. 🙂
Sister, I know you are very religious. That really is a good thing. You have the whole scripture in your brain, yet every man wishes to be anywhere else in the world but with you. Why? Here’s the reason:
Spirituality can’t cover up bad character & repelling habits. It’s time for you to start smiling more often, be more friendly, be courteous, offer help when necessary. Socialize with people more often. Be FREE!
Your dressing matters a lot too; know how to dress. Change that your archaic hairstyle. When you start saying to yourself that your hair isn’t smelling so bad, believe me, that’s the time to WASH IT.
Above all, no man wants to get married to a liability. Don’t try to do something; Do something! Learn a skill. Be innovative. Seek to have a good knowledge about as much of everything: sports, culture, fashion, politics, nutrition, entertainment etc. Strive to be the type of woman you secretly wish you could be.
Pray to be a good woman, to be wifelike; for whoever finds you ought to find a good thing. Be that woman any man would love to spend a lifetime with. (Meditate always on Proverbs 31)
Love you sisters!