Our Opinion matters

Our Opinion matters!!!

Hmmm, how well can I appreciate everyone,for everything since I started my loud thought ,the encouragement I get everyday,the advice,the criticism,the prayer and the approval .

Everyone’s comment is so important to my loud thought,even the shortest one , My pastor sent me a message that the forgiveness series of my loud thought was thought provoking,and some said it mended a lifetime relationship.

The wisdom,knowledge and understanding all belongs to God ,I will keep writing as long as you keep reading .Thanks so much for your love
I remain my humble Me

So for today …..>.This message was sent to me and its a question I would love everyone to answer .
Thanks for my loud thought it has really helped me since you started. Pls help me , I am a 30years old lady who should be married ,but each time I bring a man home to introduce to my father ,My father tells me he doesn’t like their state of origin,so I can’t marry them . .
This is the 6th time and 6th Man my dad will reject ,I don’t want to disobey my father what should I do ? I am confused .

Dear friends let’s help this lady ,the little advice we give can go a long way. You can leave your comment,send a message either on facebook or twitter

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Our Past

Thinking Our Past

So I sat down in this seminar that my mum took me to and yea I know I was meant to be listening yea I know *rolling eyes* but seriously then I thought about this thing called OUR PAST ……my thought again yea …..you know some people act so much l call them holy act thou ,
They act like they don’t have a past, while some are victims of the past ,some. Also made a mistake in the past that keeps getting back at them or some of us our past has really helped us …..some people learn from their past and they move on in life while some cause of their past. They remain stagnant ,they are so buried in their past they can’t even see the future …… But guess what we don’t have to hold on to our past, You know when you hold on so much to the past and you decide not to let go you stop making progress…..

Hmmm lots of things we love to do but when we remember the encounter we’ve had or someone we know had. In the past.. then we stop the journey of progress ….some of us so much wish we could turn back the hands of time and right what was wrong …..but seriously what has happened has and we can’t change it….. have we ever thought there was a lesson meant for us to learn from that past for us to right it in our future ….however am not talking about in our business alone but in our Relationships,Academics,Finances , let’s get personal a bit here ….okay

Once upon a time I Was on a particular road in my life and it got to a point I needed to cross that road but when ever its time to cross I remember that no one has ever done it around me before so I stop, but guess what one day I told my self you’re dwelling on the past girl , why don’t you make up your mind to stay well in that present and cross to the future ,then make your own past different ……and so I did and it ended up been a success ….am not saying its easy nope its not but why don’t we try ….there’s actually no harm in trying.
Let’s let go of our past ,don’t let it. define who you are and let’s see how it turns out, lets commit it all to God and tell him to take the pain of the past away and take charge of the future …….

The story is about to get better everyone ….make your past the best for people coming behind you and walk majestically into the future

My loud thought
OLUWATOBILOBA

Forgiveness

Just for the day
A long time ago I carried this pain in my heart and I made up my mind never to forgive that someone that hurt me so much, I reminded my self everyday, that I was never ever going to forgive …..then something happened and I asked myself does this person even know I was hurt and if I forgive this person then what would I lose?
There and then I realized I gained instead of losing after forgiving …….You know there’s this feeling we all have when we don’t forgive someone ,…..When we see that person we don’t want to forgive there’s this fast beat we can’t dance to from our heart ,sometimes it comes with a sharp headache, sometimes it even comes with nausea feeling or sudden blood rush in our vein…
We all carry the resentment ,the hatred ,the pain all about, not knowing its doing more harm than good. to us ……Yes everyone has been hurt one way or the other, some even greater than the other ,some forgettable and some are not ……some of us can never forgive our parents for something they said to us ,some our friends for their betrayal ,some we’ve been hurt by people who made us promise but never fulfilled it ,some its even our lovers that hurt us so badly, while for some its themselves they can never forgive …….
Hmmm Why don’t we just try to let go of those hurt ,those pain …anyone might have caused us ,drop that burden and let’s give chance to forgiveness in our lives. Don’t get me wrong am not saying its easy to forgive, No!!! sincerely its not and the hardest part is forgetting ……
Forgiveness we should know its a process it takes time ….don’t rush it ….research shows that people who forgive are happier and healthier than people who show resentment .Ann lander said and I coat *that hate/forgiveness is like an acid it damages the vessel when stored in it and destroys the vessel when poured * like I always say am not a preacher but let’s try and see what happens when we all start to forgive all those who have wronged us.
This might be difficult to do but ,It takes God and his grace like I said its a process ……See one of the most difficult things in live is to respond to evil with kindness and forgive the unforgiveable ,but like I said we have to take one step at a time towards it. when we do this, life becomes so easy to live. ,smile becomes. so easy to give. and we become. so happy

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OLUWATOBILOBA